Life In Sosua, Dominican Republic: When The Condom Breaks

Usually I buy the classic durex condoms which comes in a light blue box here in the Dominican Republic.  However one day I went to Supermercado Pola and they didn't have any of the condoms I was looking for. So I decided to get one called invisible. 

That decision would end up costing me a pretty penny because about a month later and in another city outside of the Sosua area I ended up using the "invisible condom" which  really lived up to its name. 

I remember looking down and seeing  my "head" was out and the condom was broken. Immediately I was very concerned because I 100% knew I came deep inside of Genesis, a woman that I had known for maybe two weeks prior to this situation .

To be honest, Genesis was not very attractive. Of all the women I have had encounters with here in the Dominican Republic I would say she’s probably the lowest in the number scale I’ve had. 

However, I met her when I just started living in Puerto Plata, so that was one reason I continued to engage with her. 

For those that don’t know, Puerto Plata is not the same as Sosua. You are not going to just walk outside and find attractive women ready to go. Puerto Plata is a regular city, with a lot of regular women and it’s not nearly as easy to meet women in Puerto Plata than it is Sosua. 

One thing I will add though is that a lot of the girls that work in Sosua live in Puerto Plata. So once you get a lot of numbers from girls in Sosua, then it is pretty easy to have a great time no matter if you are in Puerto Plata, Santo Domingo or wherever because of that rolodex of numbers available. 

But at that time of this story I did not have that. So I spent a lot of afternoons with Genesis. Even though she was below mid in the looks department she was very pleasant to spend time with. 

She would tell me about her life, I would practice my Spanish with her, sometimes we would watch some videos together. So overall I had a very relaxed experience with her. And of course we would also have sex. 

Genesis was not a pro, like you would find in Sosua, so our sessions were filled with more foreplay and even kisses. But I distinctly remember the way she kissed because it was almost more like a peck as she would tighten her lips and quickly kiss me repeatedly. 

Even her moans while I was inside her still ring distinctly in my head because of the genuineness that came out of her. Sexually, everything was really great between us until the “invisible condom” broke and I came inside of her. 

Fortunately she wasn't interested in having my baby, mostly because she already had some. 

I think I spent 10,000 pesos on something similar to plan b here in the Dominican Republic. Also on top of that I spent something like 5,000 pesos for her to go to the doctor just to see if she was actually pregnant. 

The reason I was paying for it was because she didn't have any insurance, which I haven't done any deep research, but I imagine that that is pretty typical. 

To be honest my mind was extremely preoccupied with the situation, because being a father is a big step and something I can honestly say I probably was not ready for at the time.

My mind was put to ease for a moment when we had a chat sitting on the malecon. She told me she wasn't pregnant anymore. When she told me the news I wanted to get her something so I gave her 2000 pesos to spend at La Sirena, which is a Wal-Mart-esque store. 

I felt better that my story with her was finished. I stopped talking to her. 

But then she messaged me like a week or two later saying that she in fact was still pregnant! 

I had to pay like 10,000 more pesos for her to go to the doctor to get a sonogram or something like that. 

At that point I was plotting on how I can have a happy secret family. I looked up things on google on how people broke the news about their love child to their parents and what not. I had a lot on my mind. 

Basically the end of the story is a very "Hills Like White Elephants" type situation. I suggested adoption she thought I was crazy. She wanted to keep the child. I spent more money. I didn't talk to her that much outside of money stuff. She decided she didn't want the baby and decided to get rid of it. 

That cost me 80,000 pesos. 

So, the moral of the story is do not buy "invisible" condoms or just don't buy condoms from the  Supermercado Pola in Sosua.